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How not to be a shit leader

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Stop Micro-managing 
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Micromanagement isn’t high standards, it’s unnecessary interference. 

 

It shows up in excessive check-ins, redoing work already accepted and inserting yourself into details that others are more than capable of handling.

Often, it’s justified as being helpful or thorough. It sends a clear message: I don’t trust this to move forward without me.  At first, people try harder. They seek reassurance. They check more often.

Over time, they stop thinking independently. They wait. They defer. Initiative shrinks because experience has taught them that autonomy will be overridden anyway.

Micromanagement usually intensifies under pressure.

Tight deadlines, visibility, or fear of mistakes can trigger leaders to step in “just to be safe.” The cost is momentum.

Work slows as everything queues behind the leader. Progress becomes dependent on availability rather than capability.

This behaviour also traps leaders in the wrong work.  Time and energy get consumed by details instead of priorities.

Leaders become frustrated, and reactive, not because the team is incapable, but because interference has made them dependent. 

Letting go of micromanagement does not mean lowering expectations.  It means being clear about outcomes, standards and expectations, then stepping back. It requires restraint to allow others to work through their approach, even when it differs from your own.

 

When leaders stop inserting themselves unnecessarily, people step up.   

 

Work flows faster because it is no longer waiting for permission.  

 

Confidence grows because effort isn’t constantly corrected.   Performance improves because ownership of outcomes is real.

Micromanagement doesn’t protect results.  It quietly strangles them.

It often hides behind good intentions, but intent doesn’t change impact. Small, repeated interruptions, unsolicited edits, constant “just checking in”, or last-minute tweaks chip away at confidence.

People start working around the leader instead of with them, delaying decisions, minimising exposure, and sharing only what feels safe.

What looks like control becomes friction, slowing progress and draining energy in ways leaders rarely see until performance slips.

The real test of leadership isn’t how closely you can control the work, but how confidently the work moves without you. If progress stalls in your absence, that’s not a capability issue it’s a trust signal.

Great leaders create clarity, set the bar, and then get out of the way. Because the goal was never to be needed in every decision. It was to build a team that doesn’t need you there to succeed.

 

A question every leader should ask

Am I offering guidance to help my people succeed, or control to feel comfortable?  Trust unlocks potential faster than supervision.

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